For me, like is a feeling to posses someone or something. But love, is a feeling to give happiness and not to posses. Love is to give without any willing receive, it's absolutely different from like. Many people says love to something but they will do anything to posses it.

Allright, seems that all of you agreed that our life isn't set in course. Tell me, God knows the future right? then my question is, do you think that Gid knows what will happen to us? regardless to what decision we make...
Another question is, do you think that if we make a decision and God doesn't allow it, could it happen?
What do you think?

Uh... looks like the topic has been changed..., my question is, DO YOU believe in heaven and hell? there's no connection with God, at least try to think that there's no connection between this question and God okay? Yet I'm still waiting for more replies, but please try not to change the topic okay? Thnks

no I'm not. what i fear is after death.so right now I don't want to death. i'm not ready yet. tee hee...

Guyz I wanna know whutz the different between like and love on your opinion....
Tee hee.......

It's the same as a dog, just come make love and then leave with no regret. Man what a pain....

Well, what kind of relationship is this? If it is between husband and wife, I think it's ok, and it's a must.

Hmph, What would happen if all man in the world marries a man? and the woman marries woman? then how do we multiplying? shall we be extinct? is that what you're up to? if yes, prepare for judgment day.

Of course not, everything in this world made by meaning. And it always have it's pair, just like water and fire, dark and light, man and women, and so on. I never know there is banana eats banana, something that is not in the right place, is false, just like cannibalism. Why something called "right"? because, it put into the right place. If human can't control their desire, just prepare for doom. If I were wrong, actually I'm just a normal human, that's not perfect. But I will try to be perfect...
I'm sorry if I said something that hurt whosoever read my opinion.

Do you believe heaven and hell? Give your answer with a reason plz.

Sometime ago my friend share his thought to me, he said that our live has been set in course, so that there is nothing we could do to change our life line, we could only walk on the path that has been choosen for us. SO what do you guyz think?

There are many opinions. Once again I should agreed PleaseRecycle's opinion, for you who think that God is just, please tell me, why all those things should be happening? If I were a criminal and I beg for His forgiveness when I'm about to die, will I go to heaven? and if I were a good person, say, i never do such a sin at all, but I don't know anything about Jesus, Where will I go when I die? hell? why? just because that I don't know Him? crsg, what I'm talking about is not just abut poorness it's about the whole things.

I can't just agree that He is just. If He is, then why He created ell for an eternal punishment? I would agreed if hell is only a temporary punishment, to punish whoever done sins and they're punishment is equal with what they have done.

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There are many opinions. Once again I should agreed PleaseRecycle's opinion, for you who think that God is just, please tell me, why all those things should be happening? If I were a criminal and I beg for His forgiveness when I'm about to die, will I go to heaven? and if I were a good person, say, i never do such a sin at all, but I don't know anything about Jesus, Where will I go when I die? hell? why? just because that I don't know Him? crsg, what I'm talking about is not just abut poorness it's about the whole things.

I can't just agree that He is just. If He is, then why He created ell for an eternal punishment? I would agreed if hell is only a temporary punishment, to punish whoever done sins and they're punishment is equal with what they have done.

Himeno90, IF I have many friends I wont be so lonely.....

I agree with PleaseRecycle that's what I mean. Why would He punish sinful men to an eternal punishment just for lifetime sins? I am a christian and bible does say that God is love. Is this what He call 'love' ?

One thing, don't be hasty !

Do you think that God is just? Do you think that all he has done is fair to all of us? Why? Do you think that God is good? If He is, why'd He created hell to punish sinful people for eternity? Do you think that all that He has done is good for everyone?

First let me thank you to all of you guys. Moonlightdreamer, I'm from Indonesia, so there's no night class or whatever it is, and I'd really want to talk to you along with phoenixalcott. Phoenixalcott, I sometimes feel that I want to help others, but when I'm thinking to it, I felt that I couldn't do anyrhing to help them, how could I help others while I can't help myself?

I'd really wanted to have many friends, maybe for those who felt the same as me, maybe we can talk and discuss about this situation together. For Vatican92 you maybe doesn't help me, but you let me know that I'm not the only one, thanks.

UnreachableMoon, Do you it is? you think that there might be someone waiting for me? I remembered a song from a disney film, 'Someone's Waiting for You' every night I prayed, I asked God, is there someone waiting for me? When I feel lonely I used to go to a beach nearby and see the stars, mountain, and seashore, that time i feel that I'm not alone. But now since I moved to a big city, I have no escape. Suicide is not the answer for sure, Sorry TwilightObsession, I don't agree with you.

Do I have something good? maybe. I'll try all of your advice guys, thank you. And I don't mind to get more advice...

I have a problem with my life, I'm so disappointed with my life. Everything just went wrong since I left school. I realized that I'm not a handsome person, neither smart or rich. I have doubt and fear about my future, somebody plz help me, what to do?

Maybe you really need to send the letter. I can say that you 'love' her, but as Hanazaki said, there are many kinds of love. To decide of which love, only you can decide.

Being helped is good, but it'll be better for us to help. You said that she always be on your side (in your letter), it means that she cares for you, so why don't you try to understand her, and you can always be her 'trash bin', everytime she needs you make sure that you will always be there for her. Show her that you love her too.

My conclusion is, you love her. Maybe it's not love between boy and girl, maybe it's a different love. But one thing I know is, love is love. No matter what kind of love, it only has one meaning, to give without any will of receive.

I'm sorry if what I said is someway far from what you're asking about. But I hope this will help you.

That's it. Remeber that if you quit or give up so easily means that you're a loser and you have no respect at friendship. Please try my advice, if it doesn't work please inform me, I'll try to find another solution for you. GBU

Hi guys I need some friends, please add me to your friendlist

Giving up is not the answer, I'm sorry for my missunderstanding on my earlier post.

Well, I know what's on your mind. Well, I have an experience on this situation.

Someday I met a guy, I used to him 'sic' because it's his nick name, I thought that there sre less people who called him sic, I have become his best friend. Well, actually no. I just became one of his many friends, so I tried and I tried harder to get his attention, and you know what I've got? he said that I was acting too much before him, and he doesn't like that. Then I realized, I was all wrong, that is not what I should do. As I mentioned before, we CANNOT force someone to be our best friend. So I tried to be his 'normal' friend. As time passes we eventually get along well, and yet he became my best friend.

Listen up, there's no reason to giving up on friendship, as I highly honored friendship in my life. If she doesn't want to be your best friend than you should try to be her best friend. A true friend will never quit, a true friend will never giving up their friendship, a true friend will never abandon their friends in the worst condition. If you understand what I mean...

For Zangetsu, I'm really sorry if I make you feel like that. But I'm not sarcastic. It's just a missunderstanding OK?

I didn't get it at all

Why wasting your time just to wait for someone whom you want to be a 'real' good friend while she doesn't feel the same as you? maybe she said that she want to be your friend was all lie, she did that to not offend you somewhat.
Listen, a 'real' good friend cannot be found, he/she will come to us by him/herself, you cannot force someone to be your 'real' good friend. I've tried to do the same as you before, and what I got? nothing but more pain...
Try my advice, you'd go get along with other friends, then you'll find the 'real' good friend. Sometimes, he/she is someone we never realized or expected to be our 'real' good friend.
So don't bother waiting for her, EXCEPT if you love her, that's an another story, and it's worth waiting for it.....